“Let the INNER world create the outer world” How truer can this line be? We often love to see things happening first before we start believing. We love seeing certainty in the idea that we are creating the life we want for ourselves. But what if we turn that around? What if we believe we’re creating this life… That we’re becoming this person FIRST before we start seeing any sign of evidence?
And the good thing about this golden practice is… it’s a CHOICE. We can choose to BELIEVE things first before we start seeing them. This is such a stimulating concept to talk about over coffee or tea… So I invited my real-life best friend Jaci Marie to talk about her personal story of believing a thing first before seeing it. Plus, how to get in the habit of surrendering to the Universe.
All the juicy deets inside this episode:
- How you’ll avoid being all worked up when things don’t go your way
- What to do when things (big or small) don’t go your way
- The practice of believing the Universe is working in your favor
- Jaci Marie’s personal story with the concept of BELIEVING first before seeing
- Changing your thoughts to TRANSFORM your life
- Why being in receiving mode will bring you more favors from the Universe
Top Takeaways from Em:
- Don’t check someone else’s boxes
We’ve been conditioned that the ideal life will look almost identical for all of us. We get the job, we buy the house, we raise a family. But with more and more people sharing on social media how they’re living their lives… We’re starting to see evidence that checking off someone else’s boxes is NOT always the right way to do life.
This is one of the main reasons why people aren’t fulfilled even when we see they’re living the life that only someone else could dream of. When we live our lives on our own terms and in a way that feels aligned with who we are, we start seeing positive energy coming in. We will start to see passion and feel fulfilled in how we spend our day-to-day energy.
- We go FIRST
How fun would it be to quit your current reality in exchange for a better version of yourself? We’ve seen it in the movies and I think doing that at least once in your life will always be one for the books. The idea of leaping first and the net will appear is so POWERFUL that most would risk all that they have right now in the hopes of becoming the person they want to be.
But here’s the thing… Know that the idea of “leaping first” will vary from person to person. Some could do it without a backup plan and still make it… But there are those who need some sort of strategy or a list of pros and cons before making the big decision… And that’s totally FINE.
As long as you know what it is that you want… and you’re hell-bent on creating that life… Your way is your way. Building your dreams is a highly personal journey anyway.
- Believe it and THEN you’ll see it
One common myth keeping people from becoming this best version of themselves is thinking they have to see evidence FIRST. Doing this sets us up for a lot of waiting until the life that we want becomes simply a wish. Something we want but know we can’t get.
What if we shift our mindset around the idea of believing? What if we start thinking we’re already becoming this person in our heads before we even start seeing it happening? How POWERFUL is that? Knowing for sure you’re turning into the best version of yourself. And we don’t stop there… The same concept can be applied to a lot of things in life. Even the smallest ones like needing an umbrella at the beach (more about this story inside the episode).
- Use thoughts and words to CHANGE your life
Our internal dialogue says a lot about who we are and how we’re leading our lives. How often do you check in on yourself to ask if what you’re saying inside your head matches how you want to be talked to? The goal here is to speak more affirmations and gratitude towards yourself like how you’d like to say them to other people.
Doing this creates a positive inner environment for you and you already know what that does… It makes way for the external world to transform and align with how you’re thinking. Jaci does this so well using the power of vocabulary… Try it for yourself. Choose words that are so powerful that when you think about them, you instantly feel better.
- Be RECEPTIVE
OPENNESS and SURRENDER are the keywords I want you to remember here. There is power in letting the Universe work for you… But that doesn’t mean you’ll simply wait by the side for things to happen. Make the conscious effort of being in receiving mode and you’ll start to see more of the divine work happening for you and around you.
This ties in so well with the idea of believing something first before seeing it. When we are certain a higher power is working to give us what we need exactly when we need it… the whole dynamics around uncertainty changes. We start to feel less worked up when things don’t go our way.
And then we start to feel confident and assured that we are taken care of because we are OPEN to things happening.
XO,
Em
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